Questions Children of Divorce Ask

Over the course of the last couple of months, we have been actively adding new content to the site I Am A Child of Divorce.  I Am A Child of Divorce is a site dedicated to supporting and helping children of divorce.  To that end, we have developed a chat room with regularly scheduled chats and created a pilot online support group for teens.

Another aspect of the site that we’re really excited about if the resources we are developing in house to help children of divorce.  These include the My Feelings Workbook and the Anger-omoter with more resources being developed all the time.

The purpose of this post though is to highlight some of the recent help articles posted I Am A Child of Divorce.  These short articles have been developed to help children and teens whose parents are divorced/separated to answer common questions they might have.  I Am A Child of Divorce is an extension of this ministry, and you may see fewer articles here in the short term as we seek to build a library of resources to directly help children of divorce on that site.

The following are some of those articles which may be helpful to you in ministering to children of divorce:

Will I Ever Be Happy Again?

Children of divorce often wonder if the extreme emotions they are feeling following a divorce will last forever.

What Should I Do When My Parents Say Bad Things About Each Other?

Angry GirlThis is a common struggle for kids – parents who bad mouth one another in front of the kids.  In the end, the child of divorce will take those insults as though they had been made against them.

Heart BandaidWhat Can I Do To Get My Parents Back Together?

Most children of divorce will fantasize about their parents getting back together.  Some will even scheme and plot to try to get their parents back together.

How Can I Respect and Honor My Parents After A Divorce?

RespectThis is a real struggle for kids, especially Christian children who have been taught that God commands this honor there mother and father – the first commandment with a promise.

Did I Cause My Parents’ Divorce?

Child in TroubleMost children experience some guilt following the divorce of their parents.  Many convince themselves that they were responsible for their parents’ divorce.