Andrew Root on Two Competing Priorities in Divorce

But for the children of the late-twentieth-century love union, all it took to destroy a marriage was a change in Mom and Dad’s individual, subjective feelings. Here, then, is the conflict that we have yet to solve: what do you do when the self-fulfillment of mother and father requires the dissolving of a marriage, but the security and self-fulfillment of the child depends upon its continuation?

From Children of Divorce, The: The Loss of Family as the Loss of Being by Andrew Root